There is a Wrong Word
Bisexual. Namely, being a femme bisexual woman. It feels antiquated. Wrong somehow, like it shows “why yes there only is a gender binary and a bisexual person oscillates between these two” and “please teach...
Tagged: queer
Parenting 101: Queer with Children
I’m kinky. Yep, queer to the core, and liking it. This is not a brand new thing for me, but it is relatively new to the whole of my life. There was a time...
Like It, Love It, Gotta Have It
I’m always amused when someone asks me what lesbians do in bed. Not because I’m laughing at what people don’t know–we all have stuff we don’t know, and thank goodness someone answers our questions–but...
Three strikes, you’re out: Exclusion from the queer community
I’m a 28 year old bisexual femme woman living in San Francisco. I had my first sexual experiences with women in college, and while I initiated and enjoyed them, I was hesitant to...
