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Say Please: An Interview With Sinclair Sexsmith About Kinky Lesbian Smut

Sex & Gender

Say Please: An Interview With Sinclair Sexsmith About Kinky Lesbian Smut

One our our favorite things is getting a sneak peek at the hottest new books, toys, and movies and this is no exception. We got an advance copy of Say Please: Lesbian BDSM Erotica,...

Invisibility versus Illegibility: KinkForAll shows how “kink”is everything you didn’t know it can be

Sex &...

Invisibility versus Illegibility: KinkForAll shows how “kink”is everything you didn’t know it can be

This Saturday, February 25th, I’ll have the privilege of participating in KinkForAll Denver, an open-to-the-public “unconference whose theme is sex and relationships education\’with a twist. Rather than invite “experts to give lectures to a...

Safe/Ward, Safewords, and the Battle of Community Accountability

Sex &...

Safe/Ward, Safewords, and the Battle of Community Accountability

Introduction: Safe/Ward is getting to be rather a massive project, with a lot of posts, so if you’re so inclined, please check out the other posts in the series: –I Never Called it Rape...

Ask the Doctors: Bondage and Tingling Hands

Ask Carol Queen / Sex & Health / Sex & Techniques

Ask the Doctors: Bondage and Tingling Hands

Dear Good Vibes: I’m new to bondage. After a particularly long and intense session this last Saturday, my hands were tingly and numb. I moved them around and they felt better, so I didn’t...