Good Vibrations’ 2015 New Year’s Sexual Resolutions
Here are 12 new Sexual Resolutions to start 2015 off with a bang!
1.) Explore your own body: Love your body!
Do you know what’s in your own operating manual? Do you know what gets you aroused? Can you bring yourself to orgasm? Those are basic, important elements of your sexual response. Check yourself out and enjoy the body you are in!
2.) Get frisky! Try that fantasy you’ve been dreaming about
You don’t have to have the same sex all the time—mix it up! Maybe a little role-play, or some “kinky fuckery” to spice it up. Get ideas from erotica or share fantasies with your partner.
3.) Talk to your partner: Ask for what you *really* want
No partner, no matter how devoted, is a mind-reader! Resolve to start talking about sex with your partner and community this year. You can have better sex if you feel more comfortable talking about sex.
4.) Educate yourself about sex: Go to a sexy workshop to brush up on your skills or learn something new!
Maybe you learned the basics of sexual health, but most sex ed stops short of teaching about pleasure and diversity. That means there’s still a lot to learn! And fortunately, the homework is awesome. Take a class or pick up a book, or an instructional video about sex and learn some new tricks!
5.) Try a new position
Gain a new perspective on your sex life by switching up the view! Surprise your lover by suggesting a new spin on an old classic or exploring a completely new position you once saw in a book or movie. You’ll never know how orgasmic an unexplored angle can feel until you take the chance!
6.) Do your Kegel exercises for a few minutes every day
How many times a day do you check the same social media sites over and over? We spend so much time exercising our thumbs ‘liking’ and ‘favoriting’ everything in our path and almost no time working out a muscle that will really pay off. Just a few minutes a day exercising your Kegel muscles can fundamentally improve your health and sex life! It’s easy to do and can be done almost anywhere! Shh…I’m doing them now!
7.) Wear things that make you feel sexy
Dress to impress, yourself! There’s nothing finer than that feeling of confidence that comes with a well-coordinated ensemble. On top or underneath, the power that comes from feeling your sexiest can not be beat. Make an effort this year to cover yourself in clothing that makes you feel as beautiful and powerful as you were meant to feel!
8.) Find your g-spot!
The G-spot is not a myth and it’s waiting to be discovered by you! Unlike other erogenous zones, the G-spot can be something of a mystery to those with and without them. Proper stimulation of it requires patience, practice and communication. Regular exploration and experimentation on your or your partners G-spot could lead to a more fulfilling sex life!
9.) Experience the joys of prostate play
Who knew that some of the most sensational stimulation your body could ever experience has been right underneath you this entire time? It’s time you put aside your doubts and experience pleasure in a whole new way! It’s your body, don’t let misconceptions keep you from an orgasm unlike any you’ve ever had.
10.) Get yourself a really nice new sex toy
Whether it’s a massage or a fancy meal, indulging feels good. Treating yourself isn’t selfish; it’s self care! And unlike an experience that’s over at the end of the night, a quality sex toy is an investment you can enjoy all year long. Pop on over to Goodvibes.com to grab the gift that keeps on giving.
11.) Set aside time for self-pleasure
We take care of ourselves in all sorts of ways, and making time to give yourself pleasure is just as important. Pleasure isn’t just something you should get to experience now and then; it’s what you deserve. Make some time this year to be the best date you’ve ever had!
12.) Say goodbye to shame
Very few of us get to adulthood without some sort of shame or worry about sex. Are we attractive enough? Good in bed? Do we like the wrong things? Shame and worry are responsible for much sexual misery and low self-esteem; make 2015 the year you drop that heavy baggage.