Going Down? …I Think I’ll Take the Stairs
A little while ago, I went to a sexual empowerment workshop. I don’t know exactly what I was expecting, but I left feeling quite shaken and exposed, like a nerve had been touched and...
Category: Sex & Relationships
If the Cock’s Small, Love It!
Let’s hear it for the small cock! No, really, let’s. Because I’ve been singing its praises of late. In fact, my partner and I have been having a rollicking time with a dildo that...
Staying Present During Sex
A lot of people disembody during sex. Disembodiment is a process by which you – in some way – mentally or spiritually separate from your body. Yes, you’re technically there, but you’re not there...
Doing the DTR: How to Discuss/Define the Relationship without Destroying the Relationship
In the past two years I have been in a few romantic relationships that lasted several months, all with feelings and expectations that went beyond sex, and in some cases approached commitment. Inevitably, at...
