Category: Ask Carol Queen

Ask the Doctors: Can a Vibrator Numb the Clitoris?

Ask the Doctors: Can a Vibrator Numb the Clitoris?

Can your clitoris get desensitized due to too much vibrator use? — Buzzlover Let’s put it this way: If you press a buzzing vibrator against your clitoris for a period of time (your mileage...

Ask the Doctors: Disparate Desire and Feeling Pressured

Ask the Doctors: Disparate Desire and Feeling Pressured

I am 42 years old, female and now at the very end of a friendship that is still trying to work: my friend (male and 57 years old) very actively loves sex and I have not...

Ask the Doctors: Painful Intercourse

Ask the Doctors: Painful Intercourse

I could use some suggestions about how to make intercourse less painful. Vaginal insertion is very painful now that I have gone through menopause and I am not enjoying penetration at all (I used...

Ask the Doctors: He Doesn’t Masturbate When He’s In a Relationship

Ask the Doctors: He Doesn’t Masturbate When He’s In a Relationship

Is there something wrong with a man that does not masturbate? Does he not feel the need, if he is in a relationship? One of the most common myths is that people only masturbate...