Sex Is a Skill, Like Riding a Bicycle
I have been doing sexuality education workshops since 1989. In one particular workshop, I focused on the idea of sex being a skill. One participant reacted very strongly against that idea. It was as...
Author: Susan Miranda
Why I Keep the Focus on Self-Pleasuring and on the Importance of the Relationship with Ourselves
Many people have said that if we really want a good relationship with another person, we have to like ourselves. We need to be our own best friend and enjoy spending time alone in...
Consent in the Doctor’s Office
When I was in my late teens, I had barely formed friendships with other youth, much less developed a sexual relationship with anyone, male or female. So I had little awareness of sexuality, much...
Willingness, Desire, Wanting, and Consent
About twenty years ago, I was at a sexuality conference in San Francisco. I met someone I found to be attractive and was interested in physically. She invited me to her home for dinner....
