Author: Susan Miranda

Why I Keep the Focus on Self-Pleasuring and on the Importance of the Relationship with Ourselves

Why I Keep the Focus on Self-Pleasuring and on the Importance of the Relationship with Ourselves

Many people have said that if we really want a good relationship with another person, we have to like ourselves. We need to be our own best friend and enjoy spending time alone in...

Consent in the Doctor’s Office

Consent in the Doctor’s Office

When I was in my late teens, I had barely formed friendships with other youth, much less developed a sexual relationship with anyone, male or female. So I had little awareness of sexuality, much...

Willingness, Desire, Wanting, and Consent

Willingness, Desire, Wanting, and Consent

About twenty years ago, I was at a sexuality conference in San Francisco. I met someone I found to be attractive and was interested in physically. She invited me to her home for dinner....