Author: Kitty Stryker

Masochism and Redemption

Masochism and Redemption

I was a self harmer. I have never been a masochist. To me, one could easily be a precursor to the other, and I’ll explain that in a moment. But, call it my martyr...

High Maintenance, or Just Selfish?

High Maintenance, or Just Selfish?

I was reading the Queer Fat Femme’s┬áblog, and came across this: “Backstage at Cupcake Cabaret, World Famous *BOB* told a story about how a (now former) beau had called her high maintenance. ‘I called...

The Naughty Step: Exploring Domestic Discipline

The Naughty Step: Exploring Domestic Discipline

The boy and I are trying a new experiment into the world of ageplay- daily discipline. It’s an interesting one to explore, considering I’ve been wanting to make our relationship more formalized, perhaps with...

Sex on Film

Sex on Film

In honor of Lady Porn Day, which is February 22nd, I want to step away from discussions about other people’s porn. There’s a lot to be said in the world of porn about representation...