Author: Good Vibrations

Going Dutch?

Going Dutch?

When you think about teen sexuality, what comes to mind? Furtive, hidden encounters in the back seats of cars? Dodging STD and pregnancy bullets (or hoping to), without any real practical education on contraception?...

Fantasy vs. Reality

Fantasy vs. Reality

Something we don’t always address in discussions of sexuality is the fact that fantasy and reality are two different things. Sometimes people watch porn with the notion that the performance on the screen is...

Going Home

Going Home

“Nine car SFO/Millbrae train arriving in six minutes. I shivered a little. The elevated outdoor platform at the Fruitvale station was chilly, and it was late. “Cold honey? Let me warm you up. Cally...

Irresponsible talk on sex, gender and feminism

Irresponsible talk on sex, gender and feminism

I gave a talk the other day that mentioned sex trafficking, sex work, surrogate motherhood, child sexuality, sex tourism and international marriage broking. Held at the Institute for Development Studies in Brighton (UK, where the...