Author: Good Vibrations

The Single Girl’s Guide to Cruising

The Single Girl’s Guide to Cruising

I’d like to take a moment to unveil something to straight girls all over the world, and it is this: cruising. My close friend and grad school “chum introduced me to this term: “Ooh....

Sex Ed 202: Raising a sex positive kid Part 2

Sex Ed 202: Raising a sex positive kid Part 2

Last week I wrote about raising sex positive kids and touched on my dreams of providing space for my kids to explore their sexuality in a safe environment where they don’t have to fear...

Sex has Us

Sex has Us

“We don’t have sex. Sex has us.” This statement, which came up in one of Dan Savage’s recent “Savage Love” podcasts, has been working at me for several weeks. This reality is easy to forget...

Heteroflexibility & Masculinity in San Francisco

Heteroflexibility & Masculinity in San Francisco

Last night my friend Seth and I went to the Rockit Room on 5th Avenue and Clement in the Inner Richmond in San Francisco. Seth and I have been (informally) singing the divas for...