Ask the Doctors: What’s a Good Vibrating Cock Ring?

Got a good cock ring or vibrating ring etc that will really hit my wife’s clitoris?

We get this question a lot. It makes sense, since a majority of women (in some studies, as many as 70%) need some clitoral stimulation to reliably orgasm. Of course, you can use lots of different kinds of vibrators for that, though some of them can get in the way in some positions. If she’s on top or you’re in rear entry (aka doggy style), most vibrators will work but for face-to-face posistion, they can be inconvenient. And anyway, if you want something hands-free, you might want a cock ring vibe.

There are a few things to consider about these toys. Some of them function as working cock rings, trapping more blood in the penis than usual. Lots of men really enjoy the sensations they create, though not everyone. Some of these include the Mio Cock Ring and the Neo Vibrating Cock Ring. If you’ve never used a cock ring before, we have some useful tips here.

But there are also plenty of rings that are snug enough to hold the vibrator in place without squeezing so much that they function as cock rings. if you want one of these, the Screaming O Vibrating Cock Ring, the 4US Vibrating Cock Ring, and the O Wow Reusable Vibrating Ring would do the trick.

One thing to remember, though, is that if you’re moving back and forth (like people often do during sex), the vibe won’t be in contact with her clitoris most of the time. These toys often work best with more of a grinding motion than a thrusting movement. 

On the other hand, some women are looking for more of a bumping or pressure sensation than a vibrator. The O-Joy Stimulating Cock Ring doesn’t vibrate, but it adds a little something extra each time you thrust.

You could also take a look at the Butterfly Effect Waterproof Wearable Vibrator or the Daring Dolphin Vibrator. She can wear them to give her constant pleasure in any position, though some people say that they slip out of place. And of course, the We-Vibe 3 Couple’s Vibrator is designed to stay in place and give her clitoral and G-spot stimulation during sex. It’s remote-controlled, rechargeable, easy to clean, and has been very popular.

So there you have it- lots of options for the two of you. Hope you have fun!  


We’re dedicated to getting you the information you need about sex, pleasure and your health. If you have any questions, please email our staff experts, Dr. Carol Queen and Dr. Charlie Glickman, at education@goodvibes.com! For product-related questions, please email or call our customer service staff at customerservice@goodvibes.com.

Dr. Charlie Glickman

Charlie Glickman is the Education Program Manager at Good Vibrations. He also writes, blogs, teaches workshops and university courses, presents at conferences, and trains sexuality educators. He’s certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, and loves geeking out about sex, relationships, sex-positivity, love and shame, communities of erotic affiliation, and sexual practices and techniques of all varieties. Follow him online, on Twitter at @charlieglickman, or on Facebook.

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  1. Bill says:

    Great advice on cock rings!!