A Sexy New Twist on Double Dildo Action

Dildos and harnesses are some of the most popular toys around here. And although the stereotype is that the only folks who wear them are lesbians, we’ve had way too many male/female couples ask us about pegging to agree with that. Plenty of trans* men wear them, either for packing or playing, too. And we’ve also heard from quite a few cisgender men who are curious about them. I’ve talked with men who have had prostate surgery and can’t get erections any more, guys who want a dildo that’s a different size from their own penis (one m/f couple wanted to use it to warm her up for anal intercourse since he was was on the larger side), and even a few guys who were into chastity play but still wanted to pleasure their partners.

Nevertheless, whatever gender the receiver is, it is true that most harness wearers are cis women and a lot of them ask us how they can get some pleasure from a harness. Some harnesses have pockets for mini vibrators. Another option is to use Smartballs– the internal ball rolls around with your hip movements, giving you hands-free G-spot fun! And I’ve heard from some women that the We-Vibe is a great way to get both clitoral and G-spot sensation while wearing a harness.

Folks who want something a bit different have been asking us about the Feeldoe and the Share Double Dildo. The basic design is similar for both of them. Instead of using a harness, you can insert the smaller bulb (vaginally) and use the PC muscles to hold onto it while using the longer end with your partner. The difficulty is that some women have a hard time holding onto the bulb, even when they do their Kegel exercises. Plus, thrusting back and forth makes it even harder to hold onto the toy.

So I was really happy to see the photo up there at the top. It turns out that the Betty Harness and the Veronica Harness do a great job of holding the Share and the Feeldoe at just the right angle. And not only does the bulb add a little extra vaginal sensation, the shape gives you excellent clitoral stimulation at the same time!

The Betty and Veronica seem to work better than some others because of the low-rise cut, though it anyone has used the Feeldoe or the Share with other harnesses, we’d love to hear from you!

Veronica Harness

Betty Harness

Share Double Dildo

Feeldoe Silicone Double Dildo

Dr. Charlie Glickman

Charlie Glickman is the Education Program Manager at Good Vibrations. He also writes, blogs, teaches workshops and university courses, presents at conferences, and trains sexuality educators. He’s certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, and loves geeking out about sex, relationships, sex-positivity, love and shame, communities of erotic affiliation, and sexual practices and techniques of all varieties. Follow him online, on Twitter at @charlieglickman, or on Facebook.

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