I get a lot of people asking about how to have the “safer sex talk.” It’s a challenging conversation for a lot of people to have, for a lot of reasons. Even when both people test negative for sexually transmitted infections, it’s not always easy to have that chat. Some folks tell me that they
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Open Condom Style
I should know better than to think that I’ve ever seen it all. Here’s a cover of Gangnam Style, with all of the music played on condoms. If you’re looking for the best fitting and most sensitive condoms, we have you covered. And since finding the perfect fit and using condoms correctly makes a big
Is Masturbation Boring? Try Something New!
One of the common complaints about masturbation is that it’s not as exciting as sex with another person. Of course, one reason is that being with someone else brings unpredicatability and negotation to the sexual experience. But another factor that’s worth unpacking is that a lot of us are bored with our self-pleasure routines. I’ve asked
Go to Kegel Camp and Tone Your PC Muscles
Plenty of folks have heard about Kegel exercises, but let’s face it- it can be hard to remember to do them. Fortunately, there’s an app for that, too. Emily Morse, the host of the Sex With Emily podcast, has released Kegel Camp. It’s a super easy-to-use iphone app that keeps you on track. There’s a
What is “Sexy”?
The other day, my daughter Cindy (7) used the word “sexy”. Initially I laughed because of how she was using it. Then I realized I have never defined this word for her and yet here she was deriving a definition somehow. I asked her, Me: “Baby, what does sexy mean?” Cindy: “Sexy is when two
Ask the Doctors: Is the G-spot Real?
Is the G-spot real? – Virginia The existence of Santa Claus is above my pay grade, but yes, Virginia, there really is a G-spot. Its proper name is the prostata femina, which we can translate as “female prostate,” and the G in the name refers to Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, the guy who lent his name
Ask the Doctors: Vanilla + Kinky = ?
I am super-attracted to a girl who’s into BDSM but I feel pretty solidly vanilla¦ What to do? I’m scared. – Vanilla Hoping for Chocolate Chips There are a few things to do: First, figure out just how into BDSM she is. Is that her main erotic identity, or major icing on the cake? Put
Ask the Doctors: Too Much Vaginal Lubrication
I am in my late 40′s, and just get too wet during foreplay and subsequent sex. It’s not squirting, it’s my interior v walls secreting too much lubrication. Do you have any recommendations or products to reduce this? Aside from a constant towel wiping, appreciate any ideas you might have. Although we usually hear about
Ask the Doctors: He Doesn’t Orgasm
I am looking for advice. My boyfriend and I have pretty passionate sex. Both of us get turned on pretty easily and he gets very hard. However, he has trouble coming. His penis is large. When he is on top he is more likely to come, but often it doesn’t happen. I have no trouble
Ask the Doctors: Did I Already Have HPV or Did My Partner Cheat?
Is this something that can really be dormant in your system for years (close to 30 to be exact) before finally showing a positive test result? All prior tests were negative. Does this mean that my partner has been unfaithful? I’ve read that some people have it for years, but as long as 30? Can’t seem
