I’ve written on the subject of service on several occasions in the past, as this is a large part of the life I live, and is therefore something very near and dear to my heart. A couple times they were done as assignments, a couple times they were done just as my own personal exercise,
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Book Review: Best Bondage Erotica 2013
Last month, we looked at Cleis Press’s Best Bondage Erotica 2012, an assortment of devilishly deviant stories devoted to the year’s best tightly bound erotica. This month, we’re back with a fresh batch of stories to stimulate and inspire. Edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel and with a foreword by Graydancer, Best Bondage Erotica 2013 stretches
Invade Her (Erotica)
He slipped through the front door like a ghost so as not to wake the woman sleeping within. He had plans for her that didn’t involve her catching him creeping through her house in the middle of the night. His biggest worry had been the neighbours. A six foot eight, three hundred pound man with
Book Review: Best Bondage Erotica 2012
Before the internet streamed hardcore porn and you could see softcore-esque ads for clothing on the subway, readers earned their sexual stripes by devouring erotica about their favourite fantasies. Erotica sometimes suffers from the same flavour of cheesiness as pornos starring pizza delivery men – the word “manhood” comes up a lot – but well-written
From Inside the Store: Why We Don’t Have Metal Handcuffs
After working at Good Vibrations for a while, I’ve helped a lot of folks with a lot of different questions. Although I get tons of unique questions, there are a few that pop up fairly often. This is one of ‘em. When you walk into a Good Vibrations, one of the first things you probably
True Story: I Can Be A Kinky Feminist & A Messy Human Being
This post first appeared on The Frisky. A few years ago …. Today, in 2012, I avoid him as much as I can. But my friend (?) Richard used to joke (?) that I only called him when I broke up with my boyfriends. Kinda true, kinda false. Regardless — a few years ago —
A Virgin Tail
He knew she was aware of him, even with the blindfold blocking her vision. His very presence gave her goose bumps and she shivered. Inhaling deeply, he ran his hands through her tight curls. She didn’t move. He didn’t expect her to. He had told her to be there for dinner at six. So she
Drawing the Line
Discussions of sex and consent often stress the importance of being clear about your boundaries, speaking up when someone crosses a line and does something that makes you uncomfortable. But no one ever talks about defining this line for yourself. How are you supposed to figure out what you’re comfortable with when you’re worrying about
Flagging Femme
The first time I met Shilo was at my apartment. She was there to photograph me for The Sex Positive Photo Project, and having two drawers filled with “for photo shoots and sex only” outfits and shoes I was thrilled to be her model. After a bottle of pink moscato she and Airial Clark (who
50 Shades of Obsessing with Spanking
The current Fifty Shades of Grey mania has apparently gotten more women into spanking lately. Sex-toy shops gleefully report an increase in sale of bondage toys; even hardware stores are reporting an influx of new customers — mostly women — shopping for rope. People are drawn to bondage for all sorts of reasons. In our
