I’m wondering if you’d be willing to part with some of your wisdom. I’ve got a friend who is just discovering his kink side. He’s married and his wife is pretty open but fairly vanilla. He’s discovering he’s a bottom and is into all kinds of fun things. She’s willing to play along but doesn’t
Tag Archives: Ask the Doctors
Ask the Doctors: How Do Dilators Work?
Hello! I work for a company that makes dildos, and had a customer call today; when I talked with her, she mentioned that her gynecologist had recommended using a dildo to widen her vaginal walls because the vaginal walls get tighter with aging. (She sounded like she was over sixty.) I have never heard of
Ask the Doctors: Why Does My Prostate Hurt?
I recently bought a prostate toy from you. I think that I’m using it right, but when I do, it hurts. Getting it in is fine, but when I try to push it against my prostate, it’s painful and not fun at all. Is it possible my prostate is someplace the toy can’t reach? Or that
Ask the Doctors: Libido and Hormonal Birth Control
I’m interested to know if there is any research you guys know about on libido and hormonal birth control. I don’t have a very big libido and I find that when I’m on birth control I have none. Which I guess does the job regarding birth control but kind of defeats the purpose. I don’t remember ever
Ask the Doctors: Anal Fissures
I’ve recently been diagnosed with an anal fissure. I am a heterosexual male but I’ve enjoyed a women taking me with a strap on. Could this have caused it? What about future anal? –Back Door Blues Anal fissures are annoying and sometimes quite painful, and some sources of information about them mention anal sex as a
Ask the Doctors: Tips for Masturbation?
I’m a male who has never masturbated before looking for advice on technique and how to approach it. I’m 18 and I’m still having problems — I come from a religious family. Sometimes coming from a conservative religious family and/or community is enough to affect a person’s sexual feelings, and certainly can limit the amount
Ask the Doctors: Sex Makes Me Sore
Dear Dr. Queen, What a relief to know that doctors like you exist. I’ve brought questions to my PCP before, but even though the topic wasn’t even all that esoteric, she had no idea how to advise me. I’m hoping you might be able to point me in the right direction of where I might
Ask the Doctors: Pain With Intercourse- What Can I Do?
I have constant pain during intercourse at this time in my life, although it wasn’t always that way. I am experiencing yeast infections almost constantly — this has lasted pretty much the whole duration of my relationship with my current boyfriend. I went to see an allergist who diagnosed me with a possible yeast allergy.
Ask the Doctors: I Found Naked Pics On My Boyfriend’s Computer
I found really sleazy pics of a girl my boyfriend knows when I was checking mail on his computer. They were graphic close-ups and even though he said they’re no big deal, I’m devastated. He said he’s never slept with her, but I don’t believe him. Why would she send him crotch shots then? I’m
Ask the Doctors: Natural=Safe?
There has been a lot of talk over the years about things like phthalates, parabens, propylene glycol, nonoxynol-9 and other things that go into the manufacture of lubes and sex toys that may not be so good for the body. One response to this has been to gravitate towards more organic, more natural products, which
















