“Sex is a natural urge, sure, but that doesn’t mean we instinctually know how to do it. Hunger doesn’t teach us how to cook a meal. Same idea. With food, imagine if you never, ever, ever saw someone eat. You’d have to figure it out for yourself, sure, but how wonderful it would be to take a cooking class!”
Category: Sex & Techniques
“Have we all gotten lost in the Orgasm Olympics and forgotten that sex is not as much about achievement as it is about pleasure? … The kind of sexual interaction between two people that is actually super fun, filled with anticipation, giggles and a sense of silly adventure.”
“We are whole bodies and there is so much pleasure in all of it.”
As long as parents are essentially silent and schools provide bad sex ed that does not answer a teen’s perfectly reasonable sex questions, youth will figure that the most effective way to get questions answered is by *watching some sex*, but they will likely not absorb the message that this is scripted and directed sex, akin to watching car chase movies to learn to drive a car.