Category: Sex & Techniques
Posts pertaining to improving sex, better sex, creative sex, how-tos, masturbation, general advice.
As long as parents are essentially silent and schools provide bad sex ed that does not answer a teen’s perfectly reasonable sex questions, youth will figure that the most effective way to get questions answered is by *watching some sex*, but they will likely not absorb the message that this is scripted and directed sex, akin to watching car chase movies to learn to drive a car.
“People are doing many things right – in particular, talking about sex in the first place! While this is still a struggle for some, we see a general trend toward more discussion of sexuality + pleasure in general. Even talking about sex with friends can be a great first step in becoming more sexually communicative with partners.”
“When you couple decades of media standards with our innate instinct to fit in, with the fact that sexual pleasure and sexuality is demonized, shamed and stigmatized for almost everyone, you get a whole country of people who don’t think they deserve to have a satisfying sex life or that they are innately unsexy.”