Sex-Positive Retailer Raises Summer Funds for Equal Marriage Good Vibrations, the trusted San Francisco-based company that takes pride in providing accurate information on sexuality and toys for grown-ups, is delighted to announce its new GiVe Partnership benefiting Marriage Equality USA in its retail stores and online. From May 1st to July 31st Good Vibrations’ customers
Category Archives: Sex & Relationships
May is Masturbation Month!
Sex-Positive Retailer Says Knowledge is Pleasure, Encourages Masturbation! Good Vibrations, for 36 years America’s trusted purveyor of sexual knowledge and quality products for women (and everyone else), says, “It’s Masturbation Month! Give yourself a hand! Or a vibrator, or something else stimulating, and don’t forget the lube!” Good Vibrations founded founded National Masturbation Month in
Is Dating Ruining Your Love Life?
So, I just finished reading Samhita Mukhopadhyay’s book, Outdated: Why Dating is Ruining Your Love Life. The title was the book’s first point of intervention: is dating ruining my love life? The thought honestly had never even crossed my mind. Could people actually opt out of this weird, murky, sometimes craptacular ritual and live to
Please Don’t Take My Helpfulness for Granted (Another Little Something on Service).
I’ve written on the subject of service on several occasions in the past, as this is a large part of the life I live, and is therefore something very near and dear to my heart. A couple times they were done as assignments, a couple times they were done just as my own personal exercise,
Happy Vibrators on Valentine’s Day
I got married on Valentine’s Day in 1996. When I say married, I mean we had a “fierce queer true love union” because as a lesbian, I am not legally able to marry the mother of my children. It’s illegal. I like being an outlaw — it sounds rather Johnny Cash and a little sexy
10 Valentine’s Day Date Ideas that are Free, Cheap… and Fun!
Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about spending a lot of money. At it’s core, it should be a moment to spend some quality time with those you care about. Here are 10 ideas for activities that don’t cost much: 1. Going on a hike/historic walk. Get out of the house! Whether in a
Try Backseat Sex Escape
I know the backseat has a reputation for sordid trysts and backseat dalliances. Perhaps, rightly so. However, even those in long term, committed relationships can transform the backseat into their own private, church of “Oh! Oh! Oh!” hot rockin’ sex. You can have the best sex ever in your bed; but when you finally roll
The Tiger of My Passion
I live with a Tiger: paws and claws; playful and fierce; aloof and focused; hunger-driven and gloriously beautiful; lanquid, but with the ability to spring to life at the right provocation. Such is my sexual passion. I call it, “My Tiger.” My Tiger is something I, just now entering the second half of my adult
Relationship Fluidity: Making Relationships Work When You and Your Partner(s) Have Different Relationship Styles
I was raised in a non-monogamous household. Not in the communal, slightly hippy, open and honest sense, but more in the chronic-cheating, lies, and betrayal sense. Not the best example of non-monogamy, but non-monogamy nonetheless. As a kid, I was made aware of what was going on in my parent’s relationship, even if I didn’t
Going Down? …I Think I’ll Take the Stairs
A little while ago, I went to a sexual empowerment workshop. I don’t know exactly what I was expecting, but I left feeling quite shaken and exposed, like a nerve had been touched and I wasn’t sure why. At the end of the workshop, each of the approximately 40 participants had to announce to the
















