Author: swankivy

Asexuality and Sexual Fluidity

Asexuality and Sexual Fluidity

I once knew a guy who started every one of our few and far between conversations with this line: “So, are you still asexual?” The third or fourth time he asked me that question,...

Asexual Relationships

Most people assume that sexuality—or at least sexual attraction—is an integral part of most if not all long-term relationships.  So, as an asexual person, one question I often hear is “How do asexual people...

Why Should the Sex-Positive Community Promote Asexuality Awareness?

Why Should the Sex-Positive Community Promote Asexuality Awareness?

“Asexual? What’s that?” Despite the recent push from the asexual community and various open-minded sexuality researchers and educators, the most common reaction when the Average Joe encounters asexuality in the wild is still ....

How to Be an Asexual Ally (Part 3)

How to Be an Asexual Ally (Part 3)

A guide to being inclusive: Part 3 of 3 (This is continued from Part 2: What would we like your reactions to sound like when we come out, and how would we like you...