I’ve heard the New York City subway referred to as a “hotbed of sin, and it’s true, New York has the most attractive people with their most attractive fashion at any given moment. Tonight, I’m on my way to meet the guys, play some pool, drink more whiskey, share weekend conquest stories. Jesse’s got the

I push her back against the door of the classroom the second she closes it, catching her jaw by surprise, my hand over her mouth. “Is this what you wanted? You want me up against you like this?” Corinne’s knees go weak and her eyes widen, looking up at me softly under her short red

1. I was being a jerk. Not sure the details are all that important, I just got up on the wrong side of the bed and everything was bothering me and it was 95 degrees outside and I was mad at the world. I made the mistake of thinking that running errands in Manhattan would

It is always different to fuck somebody new. New skin, new lips, new way she kisses, new way she writhes, new way she comes. I don’t keep a lot of assumptions the first time. I don’t expect us to get off, I don’t expect to be able to tell when she comes, if she does.

Recently, Kristen and I decided to start seeking couples therapy. After two and a quarter years together, we were starting to notice some patterns emerging, and some deeply held beliefs or tendencies which are butting up against each other, often causing one or both of us a lot of pain or heartache. When we stopped

Kristen and I drove to Philadelphia yesterday to see the piercing master Elayne Angel, to get Kristen’s nipples pierced and to have her pierce one of my cocks. I’ll go more into what happened during the actual piercing (ecstasy, mostly!) in another (probably password protected) post on Sugarbutch, possibly even with some photos, at least

For Sugarbutch’s 4th anniversary, I ran a little thing I like to call “Ask Me Anything,” where folks can ask any kinds of questions that they want and I will answer them (eventually). I get asked this question a lot, and spent some time drawing up my thoughts. What are some tools/techniques that help someone

I’ve asked a couple people recently what their secrets were for their successful long-term relationship, how they keep the passion alive, how they keep walking that delicate line of having enough space and still being connected to each other. Coming together, going apart, coming back together, over and over through the years. One friend answered,