So, fat girls do online dating. I’m not even sure of the correct verb usage on that one. Do you “do” online dating? The taboo of this digital thing is really starting to wane. And it took less than a decade, friend. I know that’s like a trillion giga-years or whatever, but as a child
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Flagging Femme
The first time I met Shilo was at my apartment. She was there to photograph me for The Sex Positive Photo Project, and having two drawers filled with “for photo shoots and sex only” outfits and shoes I was thrilled to be her model. After a bottle of pink moscato she and Airial Clark (who
9 Things I Learned from “If the Buddha Dated”
I have accrued over $1.10 in library fines for Charlotte Kasl’s book, If the Buddha Dated (heretofore, simply “ITBD”). And I’m not a library fine accruing kind of lady. I think about everything else that dollar could do before I spend it. And unless the item is a nautical themed halter dress or a cheetah
Men who “Regret” Sleeping with Fat Women
Today I woke up to a Facebook update from a woman asking for advice on how to deal with someone from whom she wanted a public apology. She had listened to a podcast and the guy who makes this podcast had a whole rant about how much he regretted having slept with the “largest woman”
Heteroflexibility & Masculinity in San Francisco
Last night my friend Seth and I went to the Rockit Room on 5th Avenue and Clement in the Inner Richmond in San Francisco. Seth and I have been (informally) singing the divas for years. But he has recently begun voice lessons, and asked me to join him as he felt out the Rockit Room’s
6 Bits of Wisdom for Single Women
Dear Single Ladies, Hi. My name is Virgie Tovar and I know a lot about men. I have sacrificed my innocence, my reputation and hundreds of man hours to get the information I’m about to unleash upon you. The process of aforementioned loss came at the often delightful price of dinners in ambiently lit restaurants and Mission dive
Call For Submissions : Fat-Positive Anthology
Helping get the word out about this. See below for info. CALL FOR SUBMISSIONS : FAT-POSITIVE ANTHOLOGY 1500-3000 words Editor: Virgie Tovar – author, fat activist/lifetime fat girl, and MA, Human Sexuality Deadline: November 15, 2011 I’m seeking personal essays for a fat positive anthology to be released in 2012. I’m seeking essays that either
How Virgie Got Her Nut Back
Alright. I’ve heard some recent sinister gossip that the hitachi causes loss of sensitivity. However, I am dubious. Thoughts? Few people text in complete sentences, but Vanessa does. Vanessa is a feminist. Vanessa “ even after years of being out of our radically pro-cunt circle of UC Berkeley pseudo dykes “ still uses the phrase
Free Event: Hot.Fat.Femmes! April 25, 5 pm
Hot.Fat.Femmes! Sunday, April 25th 5:00 pm “ 6:00 pm Free! 603 Valencia Street (at 17th Street) San Francisco, CA 94110 (415) 522-5460 Map and Directions Virgie Tovar hosts an evening of body positive, sex positive, size affirming fat girl love! Enjoy a fiercely intellectual panel of voluptuous vixens, fattiesexuals and fat activists as they sex
