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What Sex-Positivity Is–And Is Not By Carol Queen, PhD

“If anyone, no matter how sexually frisky and happy they are, tries to use the notion of sex-positivity to judge someone else’s sexual orientation, gender expression, sexual choices, or sexual response, they are not behaving in a sex-positive fashion. Period.”

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Meet Our Teachers–Rachel Buddeberg

“[E]specially in the US, …people who have tried out marriage, the holy grail of couplehood, and didn’t like it try it again. Instead of changing the way we relate, we think we just have to change the spouse… Maybe if we could think beyond the couple, many marriages could continue to function because spouses could meet some of their needs with other people.”